Football, family and surviving the rollercoaster

Football, family and surviving the rollercoaster

If you’re as old as I am, you will know that ‘Life Is A Rollercoaster’ whether you want to or not, thanks to Ronan Keating’s popularity at the beginning of the Noughties. While the song would not feature on any of my personal playlists, I can get behind the idea,...
The sun sets on 2024

The sun sets on 2024

At about 5:45am on New Year’s Eve, it occurred to me that 2024 has been the first year since I became of ‘working age’ in which I haven’t done any paid work. There are, of course, numerous reasons for this. My own health is fragile, but my wife and son’s support needs...
Why it doesn’t matter if Gregg Wallace is autistic

Why it doesn’t matter if Gregg Wallace is autistic

I am not what you would call a ‘people person’. I struggle in various social situations; I have lost count of the number of times I  said ‘the wrong thing’, talked over others or interrupted because a contribution to the conversation popped into my head and needed to...
I’m a parent, get me out of here!

I’m a parent, get me out of here!

I’m not usually a fan of I’m a Celebrity, Get Me Out of Here! but I’m making an exception at the moment. My wife and eldest daughter enjoy the show, so it was thanks to them that I saw the extraordinary footage of Barry McGuigan talking to his campmates about the loss...
What If? An early morning freewrite

What If? An early morning freewrite

I wrote the piece below at about 4:30am one morning in October 2023, with no plans to do anything with it. I was ‘venting’ and trying to regulate my emotions whilst staying awake. But then my wife and I met with our son’s Social Worker and SENCO; I...